When you’re giving a man oral sex, it’s hard for things to go terribly wrong. Especially if you remember one thing—passion counts a whole lot more than clinical precision. Every man is pretty much happy to have his lover wrap her lips around his penis any time, any place, for any reason. There’s an old joke guys like to say that sums it up well: “I got this really bad blow job last night. It was fantastic.” So instead saying you don’t know what you’re doing, or you’re going to do a bad job, remember: All blow jobs are good blow jobs if they are done with enthusiasm and sensuality.
With clear and direct language, Oral Sex for Every Body is a practical, uninhibited guide to making your sexual relations more imaginative and pleasurable. Oral sex has many variations as many for her as for him, and you ll find all of them in this book. Let yourself be carried along and learn to enjoy invigorating oral sex, passionate cunnilingus, or an unforgettable sixty-nine. Let it free your imagination, forget about your fears, and prepare to surprise your lover as you never have before.
Place your back flush against a wall, with your feet positioned hip-distance apart. Hold your hands straight out in front of you. Slowly slide down the wall until you are in a sitting position. Hold this position for ten seconds, then slowly rise. Repeat this five times. This exercise will dramatically change your butt’s shape in just a few weeks’ time.
I guess I lost interest in sex mainly because of the kind of sex I was having: boring and routine. I had come to accept that it was just part of being in a long-term relationship. What I found during the Detox is that choosing not to have sex is very different than simply not having it out of boredom or disinterest. In making the choice to go through the Detox, it was my way of saying that I wanted sex to be vital again. I wanted it to be more than just a routine physical act performed out of obligation.